I’ll skip talking about my love life, but I did learn about how he ended up with full custody. The short version is he just wanted what was fair. 50/50. But she wanted to take the kids back to her home state with her ( they were living in this state for4-5 years already) after a 6 figure custody battle he actually lost. She had a killer lawyer who said it was “premeditated “ to move here and the divorce. Although the divorce came years later and she started a business up here. His kids lived with mom down there for 6 months ( he never let a week go by without seeing them, he would fly to them and fly them back) and in that 6 months the kids were miserable and wouldn’t even talk to their mom. She said they could back and live with dad. And that’s where they are at. After the 6 figure divorce where he just wanted 50/50 he ended up with fill by the choice of the kids and mom.
That being said, they get along fine now. She comes up here every month or so. He told me his ex stays at the house when she comes. He asked me how i felt about that because women have had a big problem with it. I actually don’t at all. He said if we were dating and I wasn’t comfortable he would pay for her hotel. He doesn’t have her pay for a hotel because it’s more money she can save to fly here and she can be around the boys more when she is here. I am absolutely fine with their arrangement. I did think it was very thoughtful that he did ask how I would feel about that.
He’s really a dad who puts his kids first, I can say that much
