Doug, I'm going to ask you a few questions. You don't need to answer them here, but at least please think about them.
1. Which one of you is racing towards Divorce court faster? It's been 2.5 years, and she's still there, in your home, with you. So, do you want to try to save this marriage or not?
It's been 1.5 years at most and she's more or less financially stuck here.
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2. What have you gained from all your sleuthing?
A dose of reality, perhaps.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
3. What about yourself are you avoiding by putting so much focus on your wife and her actions, and why are you avoiding it?
I like you bttrfly, but this feels like gaslighting.
