*your life (just in case anyone questions my education)
My point is...these don't seem like red flag / disqualifications to me. If anything, they're pluses. Why not give them a chance in person before making any judgements?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21