So, I think I may have figured out who the OM is. It’s not someone I know directly. Does this change anything?
I don't know. Does it?
Originally Posted by Doug54
Should I tell W that I know, or drop the name to see her reaction?
To what end? What's your objective, motivation, goal?
What do you hope happens by telling her?
Originally Posted by Doug54
I am leaning towards divorce but am stuck in the house with W for the time being.
is this really how you feel or is this anger talking?
Originally Posted by Doug54
I forgot to add that she flipped out a little about thinking I may have a tracker on her car or had hired a PI the last time we argued, over her website visit. I was like, “is that something an innocent person says?”
No one wants to be controlled Doug. No one.
Originally Posted by Doug54
I think it’s fairly clear this bs with the guy has been going on in some form for quite a while. The meetup frequency can’t be often at all, but still.
Forget what she is or isn't, may or may not be doing.
Focus on yourself. What do you want? What are your core values? How do you want to spend the rest of your life?
Take the focus off of her.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
