So, I think I may have figured out who the OM is. It’s not someone I know directly. Does this change anything? Should I tell W that I know, or drop the name to see her reaction?
I am leaning towards divorce but am stuck in the house with W for the time being. I forgot to add that she flipped out a little about thinking I may have a tracker on her car or had hired a PI the last time we argued, over her website visit. I was like, “is that something an innocent person says?”
I think it’s fairly clear this bs with the guy has been going on in some form for quite a while. The meetup frequency can’t be often at all, but still.
