Honestly, BL, if your W’s BF treats your kids good…… then it would be the best for your kids if they stay together.
Hard truth to hear, Ginger, but I suspect you're right. And of course what's best for the kids trumps my own feelings...though it's not like I have control over it regardless.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I realize I’m lucky because my kid is not one to lock herself in her room as a teen . She literally spend every waking moment we are home together . Pretty cool. She called me weird but fun mom yesterday and I took that as the greatest compliment ever
Maybe luck plays a part, but I suspect having you as a mother is a bigger factor.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21