Originally Posted by Ginger1
Honestly, BL, if your W’s BF treats your kids good…… then it would be the best for your kids if they stay together.
Hard truth to hear, Ginger, but I suspect you're right. And of course what's best for the kids trumps my own feelings...though it's not like I have control over it regardless.

Originally Posted by Ginger1
I realize I’m lucky because my kid is not one to lock herself in her room as a teen . She literally spend every waking moment we are home together . Pretty cool. She called me weird but fun mom yesterday and I took that as the greatest compliment ever
Maybe luck plays a part, but I suspect having you as a mother is a bigger factor.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21