Honestly, BL, if your W’s BF treats your kids good…… then it would be the best for your kids if they stay together. Because if they break up there will just be another man they have to adjust to. And you’ll have to see if the new guy treats your kids good too. The less revolving door of men for your kids to adjust to, the better. I totally understand having to s@ck ip your own pride. It’s not easy. But I really don’t think any different men that aren’t you in your kid’s lives is going to make it any better.
When my ex and his wife I’ve got married, that was when I had said “they better stay together and he better not F this up” killed me for sure. I’m thankful enough she’s good to my D.
Today my D got her braces off! She looks like an adult ! It’s kind of crazy. She is very beautiful. I’ve been driving all over gods green earth today on my day off getting the dog groomed, braces off, then driving her to school so she could coach the Pom squad her and classmates started. I’m super proud of what they choreographed. I got to watch and it was awesome. Now we are going to meet her dad to see a sweet 16 venue. Then I’m going home and passing out. Tomorrow she managed to coerce me into taking her to a devils game. Well, coerce is a strong word, because I want to go too, it’s just alot for me on a work night.
I realize I’m lucky because my kid is not one to lock herself in her room as a teen . She literally spend every waking moment we are home together . Pretty cool. She called me weird but fun mom yesterday and I took that as the greatest compliment ever
