Yeah, BL, I will agree that the odds were against your ex! Ha!
Not sure what's better - if ExW & OM2 "make it" and the kids have some sense of stability there and I just have to swallow my hurt, or if they break up and ExW introduces them to multiple boyfriends like LH's ExW - either way...not want I signed up for / hoped for my children.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Stages of life are truly the biggest challenges. We all start off single with no real life commitments. Then life gets real and finding compatibility is HARD.
Agreed.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Believe it or not, my child has no friends whose parents are divorced. They are all together.
I believe it. I don't think any of my closest high school, college, or adult life friends' parents are divorced, and only one of my against or uncles...which caused major family drama. I'm not accustomed to this situation at all and never saw it coming. I imagine it might be easier and more casual for ExW who grew up with it as a norm.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
