Ginger1,
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Imagine being 28 divorced with a 6 months old.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I have always been at a very different stage in life as my peers.
I hear ya...imagine being 38 divorced with a D1 (and S4). Though granted I'm much newer to it.

Originally Posted by Ginger1
The single guys didn’t want to date divorced women with babies at 30....not looking for a woman who has a baby /toddler/ preschooler and a custody schedule
I don't know. OM2 didn't seem to have much of a problem moving in with W, S4, & D1. Just a little humor...too soon? :-/

Originally Posted by Ginger1
Dating is HARD. When you date before marriage and kids, everyone is basically on the same page. Not this late I’m life.
Agreed. And stage of life (age, kids...etc.) is a huge factor which gets more complicated as time goes on.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21