Boundary after big D part five

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Mach40,

Pulling your OLD comments over to your thread to respond...

After spending time on the 2D dating sites, I am done looking at them. They are so fake..

Nothing wrong with that - I deleted them for a time too, though suspect I'll be back at some point.

My spidey senses kept seeing patters of loss of marriage

Yes, at my age and especially your age the majority of the dating pool will already have been married.

gain of home

What do you mean?

need financial help to maintain lifestyle.

How do you know that?

Most were graduate degrees

This seems like a good thing. Or at least not a negative?

most wanted/needed boats and were pictured with them.

How do you know they wanted/needed boats? Maybe they have one or have a friend with one and were trying to show off what they like and are fun?

Most were sports heavy game watches.

Is watching sports a bad thing? Most men would like this. Even if you don't, doesn't seem like a deal breaker...or at least something you vet in a date.

I have deleted accounts. I bad two meets from one app.

Just my opinion, but wouldn't give up after two bad dates....you're going to have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince (or princess), no? Remember back in the day when you were dating before marriage...you weren't expecting to find your forever person right off the bat. Get into that mindset.

I think I was profiling people off of pics etc. Used to be a recruiter USN, and I think I profile people.

I guess what I am seeing is patterns of people profiles.

And when they project via picturss a specific lifestyle, of which was there previous prior to divorce, they are wanting someone to help maintain it. Is that not true, or is that only what I see.

Just my opinion, but wonder if you're reading way too much into these.

If you're examples of terrible profiles include grad degrees and enjoys watching sports.

And as for the boats...similar to what Demi Moore tells Tom Cruise in A Few Good Men: "Geez, Mach40, you were in the Navy for crying out loud!"