I don’t understand LH. I live a healthy lifestyle. But I am not obsessed with it. I am talking about gym obsessed only protein shake drinking people. I don’t think that’s 75% of the middle aged male population.
By fit I mean I don’t need a 6 pack and all these visible muscles. For you, fit is more of a vanity thing. For me, fit is actual fitness. Ability to keep up, enjoy physical activity. I don’t need all the muscles. And by unhealthy, I mean really over weight, out of breath easily, high blood pressure and diabetes due to modifiable risk factors.
I enjoy good food and drink. I like to try new cuisine and I get joy out of it in moderation. I like someone with an adventurous palate and I never had a hard time finding that ever. I wouldn’t be compatible with someone who doesn’t drink and only eats chicken breasts and cottage cheese and protein shakes . I enjoy nice restaurants and wineries and breweries. Just like you aren’t compatible with someone who doesn’t like beaches and concerts.
I know this shocks you, but I am a very active and fit woman. I eat healthy generally, and I exercise a lot. I’m not skin and bones, I have lost a decent amount of weight, but my body is strong not tiny. but I have an attractive body shape and am likely more fit than many very skinny women.
So I don’t know where you got so black and white, but what is compatible with this does not rule out all men. I’m finding it’s most men around my age, luckily.
