Welp

[LH19]

I don’t require a guy to be fit, but I do need an active guy.

So if a guy isn't fit doesn't that mean he is unfit which below you said is a hard no?

I love to bike, hike, swim , etc. unfit and unhealthy wouldn’t match me.

I am assuming unhealthy means preexisting health conditions?

But also someone who doesn’t enjoy good dining and drink wouldn’t be a fit for me either.

So people who don't enjoy alcohol and what you perceive as good food are out.

The health nut isn’t for me. Balance is very important for me.

So people who take really good care of themselves are out.

So it fair to say that you just ruled out about 75% of the male middle age population without even taking into account looks, height, job, location, living arrangements and of course the connection.

This in a nutshell is why dating is so difficult.