Can I ask if these are assumptions? Or are these women outright saying that they want boats and to be maintained after divorce? Have you been asked for financial help ? Do they put it on their profile?
Or is it an assumption that since they find themselves midlife divorced they are expecting someone to provide these assets?
I obviously don’t know what is on the other side as I only see guy’s profiles. I do know in my vast experience of OLD the landscape of men has greatly changed since COVID. Politically, values, everything. No one gives a sh!t what they say to women. I think from everyone being behind a screen and working from home for so long and not interacting, they become really bold in what they can say behind a screen. It’s gross.
Yes, I like sports. Well, hockey mainly. Yes, I love the gym and being active. Fitness has always been important to me . It’s my therapy. I don’t require a guy to be fit, but I do need an active guy. I love to bike, hike, swim , etc. unfit and unhealthy wouldn’t match me. But also someone who doesn’t enjoy good dining and drink wouldn’t be a fit for me either. The health nut isn’t for me. Balance is very important for me. The last two guys have altleast fit that balance.
Mach, not all women who are divorced need someone to maintain their lifestyle. Please don’t assume that. Us women have come a long way. I have been maintaining mine forever alone. I even pay for dates. Just make sure you don’t assume these things about all divorced married middle aged women.
