the guys are right - no worries here. this is your place. we're here to help, not judge. not one of us came here and DB'd perfectly every minute of every day.

Krav Maga is AWESOME! I think you will really enjoy it.

It's very hard to detach in close quarters.

I found it nearly impossible not to react to my exh's moods, not to be immediately available and responsive to texts or phone calls, as I'd been for more than half my life. I had to re-train my brain.

R2C is spot on about her behavior not being your focus. That's the road to perdition.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver