So a lot depends on where you are at mentally. I can tell you there is no shame in sucking it up to keep your family together. Like my ex your W isn’t flaunting another man in your face. You also have the option of moving her out of the master bedroom and separating finances and removing all support.
I think W fears a fault divorce too much to ever flaunt some other man. Also, I think she realizes whatever it is, is fantasy-based. Maybe this mf'er is already married himself. I think it's just something giving her tingles that is fine being what it is. Doesn't make it any more palatable for me.
LH, did you ever consider moving your W out of the master bedroom? I know you didn't, but did it cross your mind? Did you have separate finances after you knew there was nothing that would change your wife's mind about D?
Originally Posted by LH19
BTW you never gave more info on the sex course.
Can I name it on here, or what exactly do you want to know?