btw, your son is old enough in most states to make his own choice about where and with whom he will live.
Thanks, bttrfly. I would probably feel bad about that if it came to pass - if S14 elected not to see much of W. I have a lot of resentment towards W but even if the decision were left up to me for custody, I would certainly want her to see the children 50 percent of the time. It's important they have both parents in their lives.
