Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Doug54
Yes, it makes sense. What would you recommend?
Well it may help to understand what she is going through. There is some really good information out there regarding Happiness U-curve, the female brain and hormones. It is not uncommon for a woman your Ws age to want to blow up her life completely.

The really unfortunate thing is that there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop it.
I appreciate the perspective, LH. I guess it comes down to how much one can tolerate. Which of the two options in your other post would you advocate, knowing what you know? Ignorance and self-focus, or trying to apply consequences to wayward behavior? Again, didn't Sandi say wayward wives should be reigned in? Probably wouldn't work in my situation given the nature of MLC.

I apologize if my posts are taking on a repetitive tone. I feel like I was coasting without too much concern over what W was up to and curiosity got the best of me, and threw me for a loop.


Me:43 W:43
M:16 T:18
SD:21 SS:18
S:14 S:8 S:5