Thanks for the recap. It helps me keep your sitch from blending with everyones.

Originally Posted by Doug54
I know snooping around isn't generally recommended, but didn't SteveLW say "trust but verify"?
Most people can't emotionally handle what they find, that is why once you know what is going on, stop.

It then comes down to a trust issue and all the deception. Most do not address it correctly. Either over react emotionally or put their head in the sand.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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