Welcome to the boards. It’s a safe space, full of wonderful people who will help you navigate this journey.
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(By the way, yes, I am aware that affairs are common during MLC. I try not to torture myself with speculation, but I have braced myself for the possibility.)
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I don’t think I’d consider it a “possibility” after reading your post. I think I’d almost call it “a dead certainty”.
Keep coming back and keep posting. It’s a wild, long ride this divorce business. You seem very level headed and calm so far … that will stand you in good stead.
Time and time again this rings true.
Sudden bomb day, weird behaviour, sudden swings toward/away from you, opportunity with lots of time apart in different locations - it screams affair every single time.
