Deej - Really appreciate your insights. You had one of the all-time infamously bad bomb drops and yet seem like the most grounded, glass-is-half-full fella in the universe. I only wish I had .0001% of the compassion, empathy, and humility that you possess.
I also struggle with some of the wisdom of hard-liners on this site compared to what you espouse. For instance, it wouldn't be an alpha move to realize that W may be struggling with her MLC. I don't even know if she's "struggling" at the moment - she seems happy with the replay phase, new fake boobs, and going out like a college kid (last night at least).
Originally Posted by DnJ
Fortunately, your two paths still interact. Becoming the best version of yourself, is awesome for you, and maximizes your chances of reconciling.
I've always wondered about this. MWD and Sandi, among others, seemed to think remaining under the same roof provided the best chance at working things out. However, this doesn't provide a chance for people to see whether or not they miss their partner.
