Originally Posted by marching
I've been so busy GALing that I haven't responded to H yet. Got a really packed day of GALing tomorrow, too.
Excellent! This is one of the top things you can do to feel better.

Originally Posted by marching
I can see why my posts give off the impression that I put the 100% blame entirely on H. My reflections on my role in the marital issues leading up to BD are brief and scattered in just a handful of posts here. I've actually thought about this a lot offline, in IC and in my personal journal. I agree that it's an important exercise; I don't want to make the same mistakes in a future R. And it's just good for my growth as a person overall.
IC & personal journaling are great. If you can to share here we can help too.

Hope you had a good New Years, marching.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21