This does present a dilemma - I’d rather meet a guy who thinks I’m sexy at my current weight, than one who meets me first at my ideal weight.
This seems like you're borrowing problems from the future. Lose weight and get more fit for yourself - don't worry about how some potential boyfriend might think or respond to it.
Originally Posted by kml
Not really ready to date yet anyway, so rather moot at this point.
Why aren't you ready to date?
Originally Posted by kml
Dating is a lot more complicated for me than it was ten years ago though, so I feel I need to be ready for those challenges.
Why is it more complicated?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
