So Doug not Mach lol guess I was shaking off the cobwebs, I’m on the other side. I already know my kids are alright. I already know it’s great being with a woman who apologizes for texting in my presence and what the text is for. I know what it’s like to have a woman want to celebrate holidays with me. I also know what it was like to come home and the first thing I looked for was my exws phone to see if it was on the charger. Did she take it in the bathroom? Every time it dinged my anxiety went up.
So one of the key things I learned in 3% man is you don’t get what you deserve in life you get what you negotiate. Everything in life is negotiable. When something does not work for you in life you have to be willing to walk away from it if your terms or acceptable terms are not met.
As far as moves there are no moves. There is no silver bullet. Things are probably going to have to get worse before they get better.
Remember female MLC runs from 7-10 years not 7-10 months.
If you want to shake up the status quo maybe you take cake/sex off the table?