BL- I have definitely been working on the anger issues. I realized it quite awhile before BD. I know where it comes from. I was raised by a mom that would fly off the handle at the least little thing. I tend to do the same. It's not a matter of being mad and staying mad. I'll blow up over something and then it passes. Not blaming my mom, I'm an adult and know better. It's the model I had and that's what I learned. The one good thing is that I don't act that way with my W or kids.Thanks.
I have issues due to my Dad, deep issues, causes me to pop off verbally.. But it wasnt animated, no physical. I like the way you recognize it and know being adult you need to deal with it..
