Thanks bttrfly and BL42. I think I've always known that I have anger issues, it was easier to justify being angry than to do something about it. My anger has always been an issue for W. I didn't express it towards her the way I do others, but it has still been a problem. Where I would get angry, yell, cuss, etc. at others I would keep it in and give her the silent treatment somehow thinking that was better. She is the type that thinks someone raising their voice a little indicates anger versus just being animated or excited. I have been much better since BD. I told myself then that I needed to change and have done a decent job. Far from perfect but better.
