Congrats on retirement and happy birthday! Not bad to be free at 51! I like your game plan for 1/2, taking D13 to school, working out, and fixing up the house. Now make it happen.
It terms of the anger, it's good you're recognizing the need for help. I certainly understand the thought of OM setting you off. The thing is, you're going to need to deal w/that anger regardless of whether you and W reconcile or divorce. Either way it's going to be there, so best to proactively seek out positive ways to address and process it.
Hang in there. You'll get through this.
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Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
