the most important thing for you to realize is you've been fired as a spouse. once you realize that, you'll understand exactly the amount of support you want to give someone who fired you.

I'm not suggesting to react in a vindictive manner. I'm saying look at this pragmatically, not emotionally.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver