Now she is wanting to buy an outrageously priced ticket
Get legal advise and get your finances split asap. Your job is to protect your assets. If she gets a CC in her name only then she will financially be responsible.
You really can't control what she does. But you can do what you can to limit damage.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
