It is Christmas. H gave me a long report of his meeting with the lawyer and asked me how I'd like to move forward. All very polite and in one of the texts he says he will cover my legal fees.
Lousy timing for sure, but just roll with the punches.
How did he give you a "long report"? Was this all over text, or did you call?
Originally Posted by marching
M: Thanks for the Christmas gift. I will open it later.
Not sure the medium/delivery, but this comment come across as passive aggressive to me. Remember you're supposed to be coming across as indifferent/embracing the situation, so don't keep commenting about how you're not ready or upset about his intentions. You could simply not respond at all. Or say "please direct this to my L".
Originally Posted by marching
Another funny thing is that H's description of the D process in Country B is completely different from what I was told when I consulted a lawyer. H is actually making this way more complicated than it needs to be.
Just as long as you've consulted Ls in both countries and really understand the process and are taking the approach of getting yourself the best business deal.
Merry Christmas marching. It's tough, but you WILL be alright eventually. In fact, I think you're going to thrive.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
