Originally Posted by bttrfly
it's hard but let go or be dragged.
Indeed.

Originally Posted by DnJ
Be present in the moment. Enjoy the grandkids and time with family. It’s priceless. Let go that other cost you are associating it with.
Great advice.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21