Originally Posted by LH19
The rub is things are going to have to get worse before they get better.

You are in a tough spot F not going to lie it’s going to be a rough 2023 but you will get through it.
WAY worse.

Right now is not the time to be saying anything. You are wrapping your head around things. STFU is the rule right now. But you can have a different mind set. You can blend The advise that you like from PDG, LH19, bttyfly and anyone else. Just let new ideas sink in. PDG did not win his wife back because of his words (and he prides himself as a wordsmith). It was from his resolve and his behavior.

Here is RobX:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079636#Post2079636

Again, I do not think you need to be saying anything, but you can have a change of behavior that reflects your new way of being that adds some Robx in you.

Get your head wrapped around the way AllenA, GucciLoffer, Coach approached their sitch. Then you can add some of them into you as well.


MWD view on exposure:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2085371#Post2085371




Remember this:

Do not share WHAT you know. Do not share HOW you know. Just share that you DO KNOW.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712