Thanks for respond LH,
These questions are exactly why I need to continue to ask for feedback before acting. It’s a new concept for me smile

I feel like knowing and not taking action is weak and almost validated the behavior.

I’m not sure how it would play out if I confront her. I’m not sure I have expectations. I guess I feel like it’s somewhat my responsibility to help her see, although I know it’s not. I know no matter what i would say or do, it isn’t going to change her and probably make things worse.

I’m going to continue to DB and grow me, while taking care of the family.

Again thank you again for the questions. It helps a lot


Me:44 W:42
M:22 T: 22-23
S:22 D:19 D:16 S:6
Confirm EA/PA: 7/22
BD/IHS: 10/22