You’ve gotten some really top shelf advice and questions from these kind compassionate folks.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
Does me not saying anything validate her actions?
Is it acceptable to let her know that I know what she is doing and that I will not cover it up any longer when her mother or my adult children ask?
You do not need to actively cover up anything. You also “can” say nothing incriminating or damning. You can speak to the facts, especially one’s that are brought up. Often it’s just a confirming they - your kids - aren’t crazy, and yes Mom is actually doing that.
Be the role model. Become you.
Merry Christmas F. May you and your’s have peace and joy.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
