Thanks LH,

I decided exposure is not the way I want to go at this point. I do think that I would like to tell her that I am not lying to cover up her actions anymore when people ask what is going on. I have been extremely respectful to her situation. I want to think on it more.

She believes that getting her own place takes away the one sittin that threatens her sobriety. Me and the marriage. Those are her words not mine.

I also do not think I am ready and appreciate your feedback and thoughtful questions. I still feel like I need to confront, but not sure how yet. I feel like I am betraying myself if I do not speak up.


Me:44 W:42
M:22 T: 22-23
S:22 D:19 D:16 S:6
Confirm EA/PA: 7/22
BD/IHS: 10/22