Thanks Kind, I was just getting back on to say I am not interested in exposing. I have thought about it more and It goes against my belief system to do it this way. I am worried about the situation of the OM and the instability of my wife. I do need to think about what boundaries I want to have with this for protection of my family and home. I do not want to force anything either, I would want genuine feelings if R was to happen. I will continue on the path I have been following.
