Originally Posted by bttrfly
i'm sure she does love you. it's not about that. it's about the noise in her head that is driving her forward.
It is also about her loosing her attraction for you and being attracted to someone else.

At some level you are competing with a fantasy. So all you can do is focus on yourself and be the most attractive version of yourself.

The people I have watched here that quickly realize they should not be putting up with the CB have had the best success. PuppyDogTails is still happily married after busting his divorce many years ago. Dig around in my quotes threads for his wise words.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712