i strongly suggest not doing this at this point in the sitch.

the h*ll of it is - i'm sure she does love you. it's not about that. it's about the noise in her head that is driving her forward.

re: the OM with 9 months. Yeah, that's a recipe for happily ever after, NOT.

Keep the focus on you, the kids, and the people in the immediate vicinity over the next few days. Look at your feet. That's where you are. Look at the room around you. Focus on those who are present.

xoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver