FwdMvmnt,

How's this?

Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
Need some guidance if possible:

Text thread form today. I have not reached out at all last 2 days. Not sure I handles this right, but need help with response to last one…

W - If for some reason y’all decide you want to come here can you please let me know? I’m about to start wrapping

H - Will probably not until tomorrow. I’m going to take the kids to Christmas Eve mass at 3 and then bring them to your moms. You have an open invite to dinner and church if you would like to do either or both. Hope you have a great day.

W - I would love to go to Christmas Eve mass but I doubt I’ll be able to bc of helping here

H - "OK"...or no response.No worries, up to you.
Dinner tonight 6:30
Church tomorrow 3:00

Ttyl


W - I already told you I wasn’t coming to dinner, but I appreciate the invite.

H - Last you said was you were going to pray on it. If you did I missed it. "No worries." ...or no response

W - I did say that. You are right. I just don’t feel it would be a good thing for me emotionally or for my sobriety. Didn’t get a meeting yesterday, prob won’t get one today or tomorrow.

W - Also, party is on for tomorrow like usual. 630. You are welcome to come.

W - Dad just said he would be disappointed if you didn’t come 😔

I love my In Laws, but do not plan on going. “I was just going to reply I don’t plan on being there”

Thanks all!


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21