FwdMvmnt,

Fewer words. What about a simple "OK" to respond to her?

It's alright to communicate your plans with kids for church and dinner, but then let it be and don't with all the back and forth.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21