Originally Posted by bttrfly
as a follow up to Kind's post - I found it helpful to devote a small amount of time to this kind of speculation, not more than 15 minutes - no more, no less. Then back to your most excellent GAL activities and making Christmas and New Year spectacular for your children.
I agree. The key is not to dwell on it.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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