Are you a challenge for her? Don't be easy. It is more work but you need to create excitement in her life by your behavior. All the BDing concepts rolled together should be increasing her desire for you.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712