Originally Posted by marching
Obviously I am not in a healthy relationship with the person H is right now. I deserve much, much better.
Yes, you do.

Originally Posted by marching
I know I will be okay.
Actually, my guess is you'll be much better than just "okay". Good days are ahead.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21