Marching in limbo with MLC H

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I worried he might feel threatened.

I see lots fear and worry-driven behaviour here. Let him feel whatever he wants to feel, he’ll need to hitch his big boy pants up and deal with his own emotions.

am I mind-reading too much?

Yes, you are. Trying to understand what a WAS/WS is thinking is like trying to understand 1+1=73

Well, it's definitely preferable to the ugly, acrimonious messes that some folks unfortunately have suffered.

Don’t understate how hard it is, what you’re going through is hell on earth.

But yes, if you can get through a divorce without all the vitriol you stand an excellent chance of a better split, better custody… and you don’t fill up two lawyer’s bank accounts with your own and your children’s future education money.