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Kind18 is very spot on here. I think one of the misconceptions on this board is the "don't do the heavy lifting advice" often given here. That doesn't mean to delay the process. In fact quite often the quicker deal you can make the better deal you will get.

What if your were to 180 it and act like you can't wait to get D'd so you could move on with the awesome life you are going to have moving forward.