marching,

Kind18 said it well.

I'd simply respond send a picture of the certificate per his request - no text or explanation or upset feelings. It answers his request and doesn't engage in any pressure or pursuit.

I also don't think H is acting passive-aggressive. He's clearly communicating he wants a D and is politely requesting some information to further that goal. Now he IS after an after, breaking his vows, and wanting to D you, and that's lousy behavior on his part, but in terms of this particular ask it sounds straightforward to to me, not passive aggressive.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21