Have you watch the Jocko Willink videos on breakups yet? There's one on "The Warrior Mentality When Dealing With Breakups" and another "How to Get Over Break Ups and Betrayal". I enjoy watching those every once in awhile to get in the right mindset. There's one part where he explains how he used to tell his fellow seals when they told him about a breakup or divorce "Oh right on bro, congrats...let's rock and roll!". Reminds me of you telling your friends and coworkers and then having them take you out for some fun.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21