Hi Spiral. What a weird situation. Really don't get why W is dragging her feet. And I can't wrap my head around the OM and the kind of person who would be ok with this state of affairs. To have the responsibilities and trappings of a relationship but no real sign of commitment from W, no legit social recognition, or legal protection. The relationship between W and OM is bizarre and I cannot imagine how it could possibly be healthy. The mess they made definitely has nothing to do with you.
