Drh, just stay the course. I believe that people do what they want. IF she really wanted to see her kids she would make that happen. She is playing the classic WW victim game. Doesn't lift a finger with the kids, then blames you because she doesn't see her kids. I would just continue working on detachment.
As far as your kids, kids are a lot smarter than we give them credit for. You girls knows that going to live with mom would be a disaster. They may never say that in words, but their actions, staying with you, show it. I wouldn't worry all that much about them getting manipulated by your wife. I think it is mostly your wife just spewing excuse for being a horrible mother.
Drh, you are doing great. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You are the girls' rock. Keep being that!
Last edited by SteveLW; 12/20/2207:03 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
