You're in a tough spot. I remember when I was 16 and my parents told us they were getting divorced. It hurt so badly. I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
This will take a long time for you and the kids to heal. When things are tough, you must be strong. Face your fear and take it head on. Be ready to support your kids by playing this scenario out beforehand.
I like r2c's advice.
The best thing right now is to try to be even keeled around her and the kids. Posting here helped me immensely.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
