Ginger1,
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Im at max capacity. I am one person.
Indeed. At times I feel pressure to do everything as well. I want to be perfect for my kids considering the situation, and it's not always possible - we have to accept that and let go. Easier said than done...

Originally Posted by Ginger1
My self care is obviously the first thing to be sacrificed. But that’s not good either.
I have a tendency to do that is well, and have to do better about it. Put your oxygen mask on first...

Originally Posted by Ginger1
Then I could lay in bed and someone will bring me meals and ask me if there is anything I need.
Sounds nice, but how good are those hospital meals? lol

Originally Posted by Ginger1
I want nothing more than to run away to an island and sip frozen beverages while reading a book
Yes! Sounds incredible.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21